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Was marriage a means of escape for you?
Tue, 2008-02-12 20:35 - Kerry
Yes
No
Almost, but I got smart and changed my mind
marriage
dating
escape
expectations
traditions
6 comments
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Do you expect your mate to cheat, betray and/or leave you?
Thu, 2007-12-27 14:54 - Kerry
Yes
No
9 comments
202 reads
Do you have confidence in your body-image?
Mon, 2008-03-03 21:06 - Kerry
Yes
No
I feel confident when someone shows me a lot of attention
sexuality
physical attention
4 comments
229 reads
When someone goes to touch me in a friendly way:
Tue, 2007-08-21 18:58 - neophyte
I brace and stiffen and look real obvious and uncomfortable
I back away and avoid physical contact, but try not to make it look too obvious
I try to grin and bear it, and just wait for it to be over
I love being touched, hugged, and kissed
I'm usually the one touching, hugging, and kissing people, first
touch
trust
7 comments
277 reads
How would you describe yourself...
Sat, 2008-03-15 20:36 - Kerry
Attractive/Sexy
Funny
Smart
All of these
None of these
self-importance
self-love
10 comments
177 reads
If you suddenly got hurt or sick, do you have someone to take good care of you?
Sat, 2007-06-23 13:27 - Kerry
Absolutely
Yes, I think so
I'm not sure
I don't think so
I'm all I have
marriage
2 comments
245 reads
Do you get in manic-shopping moods, wanting to buy lots of things, hoping those things will please others?
Fri, 2008-03-14 15:10 - Kerry
I recognize myself doing that on occassion
I will typically buy special treats for others, but not for myself
I will typically buy things for myself, hoping what I have will impress/please others
I'm very careful and controlled with my shopping, rarely giving-in to "impulse buying"
I have other people do my shopping for me
impulse control
shopping
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When I think of "home", I think of:
Fri, 2007-08-10 13:42 - Kerry
Where I was born
Where I was raised
Where I am loved
Being alone
home life
4 comments
226 reads
Describe your Dating-Days:
Tue, 2008-03-25 20:33 - Kerry
I never had a bad date -- I would always make sure I'd have a good time, even if I saw no future with the person
I never liked dating; it's far too socially stressful, so I prefer to keep to myself and a small group of close friends
I have no desire to date because it means sex and intimacy will be required
My dates went from psycho-bad to much worse, so I decided to marry the first sane person I could find
What's "dating"?
dating
sex
social anxiety disorder
7 comments
204 reads
Have you ever taken prescription anti-depressants?
Wed, 2007-07-11 13:37 - Kerry
Yes
No
I refuse to take them
Maybe I should see a medical doctor, because I think I should be on medication
depression
medication
5 comments
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Are you drawn to "angry", aggressive sex/pornography?
Wed, 2008-04-23 03:01 - Kerry
Yes. Often. In fact, B&D fascinates me very much
At times. Sometimes it's nice to mix things up
Not at all. Sex should be loving, not angry.
pornography
sex
2 comments
520 reads
My father was in the military
Sun, 2007-07-22 14:02 - Kerry
Yes
No
Both fathers were in the military
I'm not sure
children
military
parents
war
7 comments
361 reads
Describe your sense of loyalty:
Wed, 2008-04-23 12:45 - Kerry
I am loyal to my family and those I love
I am loyal to those I respect/fear
I am loyal to myself, and the beliefs/causes I consider most important and dear
I have no idea what it means to be committed to one sense of "loyalty", because I'm constantly changing my mind
commitment
loyalty
2 comments
133 reads
Describe your dental health
Sun, 2007-08-05 01:46 - Kerry
My teeth and mouth are very healthy and in great shape
I have one or two fillings, but who doesn't?
My teeth are a mess (due to neglect) and in need of repair
I'm in the process of having professional dental work done due to years of neglect
dental care
10 comments
305 reads
Can Behavior Modification help reform sexual predators?
Wed, 2008-04-23 16:15 - Kerry
Yes
No
I don't know
crime
behavior modification
sexual predators
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How many have gone (or continue to go) to therapy for "failed relationships"?
Wed, 2007-12-05 13:22 - Kerry
Yes
No
I have often thought about going, but was afraid to discuss my past with a stranger
relationships
therapy
5 comments
203 reads
Masturbation:
Thu, 2008-04-24 14:25 - Kerry
Repulses me and fills me with grief
Is great for stress relief
Helps me go to sleep
masturbation
sex
sleeping disorders
stress
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marriage....
Thu, 2007-09-20 13:02 - Kerry
is the only way to keep a family together
is the best way to keep together
is one way to keep a family together
4 comments
178 reads
Are you drawn to damaged people and lost-causes?
Thu, 2008-04-24 15:14 - Kerry
All the time; I like to be the hero in these situations
It seems damaged people like to find me - I don't know why
I try to stay away from drama, and the damage it causes as much as possible
attachment
attraction
codependence
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Do you brace or prepare for rejection in relationships?
Tue, 2007-10-30 21:55 - Kerry
Yes
No
I never really thought about it
5 comments
190 reads
Looking back at your dating-pattern, was your "First Love" a toxic relationship?
Fri, 2008-05-16 08:51 - Kerry
Yes, absolutely!
It wasn't the healthiest relationship, but it wasn't the worst I found for myself, either
I did ok making dating-choices, so my first-love was a good experience
My "First-Love" has become my only love
dating
First Love
toxic relationships
1 comment
191 reads
Sex for me is:
Fri, 2007-11-09 14:38 - Kerry
a solitary secret, better kept to myself
an enjoyable shared experience with the one I love
a source of huge anxiety
a vague memory
anxiety
love
sex
solitary sex
3 comments
136 reads
Sex with your current partner is:
Wed, 2008-05-21 10:00 - Kerry
A very good, (if not great), satisfying experience for both of us each and every time
OK. I suppose it could be better, but I don't know how or where to begin to improve it
Terrible, but my partner doesn't know that
Non-existent. We stopped having sex a long time ago, and it's awful
Non-existent. We stopped having sex a long time ago, and it works well for us
satisfying relationships
sex
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Which way do you prefer sleeping
Wed, 2008-01-02 02:05 - Kerry
With someone for sex, then alone for sleep
A perfect pillow to cuddle and no fighting over blankets and covers
A pillow, another person, and whatever keeps us warm
intimacy
sleep disturbances
4 comments
161 reads
My current love-relationship:
Sun, 2008-01-06 20:26 - Kerry
the person is perfect, but the family is difficult and causing problems
the family is fabulous, but the person seems to have doubts and difficulties
we seem to be a perfect match
relationships and I don't mix, so I don't stay with one partner
traditions
1 comment
141 reads
Which do you prefer MOST:
Fri, 2008-01-11 16:10 - Kerry
Food
Sex
Money
Undecided
preferences
2 comments
169 reads
Are you drawn to date the same "type" of person?
Sun, 2008-02-10 18:28 - Kerry
I'm drawn to all sorts of people; it depends on how well our personalities click and fit
I tend to fall for a certain look or feature in a person
I try to avoid certain traits and qualities in a date
I never noticed
dating
sexual identity
3 comments
130 reads
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