Intimate relationships

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The Criminal Mind

Do you brace or prepare for rejection in relationships?

Kerry — Tue, 30 Oct 2007 15:55:14 -0600

* Yes\n* No\n* I never really thought about it\n* \n* \n

Intimate relationships

When someone goes to touch me in a friendly way:

neophyte — Tue, 21 Aug 2007 12:58:04 -0600

* I brace and stiffen and look real obvious and uncomfortable\n* I back away and avoid physical contact, but try not to make it look too obvious\n* I try to grin and bear it, and just wait for it to be over\n* I love being touched, hugged, and kissed\n* I'm usually the one touching, hugging, and kissing people, first\n

Intimate relationships

Describe your dental health

Kerry — Sat, 04 Aug 2007 19:46:20 -0600

* My teeth and mouth are very healthy and in great shape\n* I have one or two fillings, but who doesn't?\n* My teeth are a mess (due to neglect) and in need of repair\n* I'm in the process of having professional dental work done due to years of neglect\n

Bartender !?!

Describe your Dating-Days:

Kerry — Tue, 25 Mar 2008 14:33:39 -0600

* I never had a bad date -- I would always make sure I'd have a good time, even if I saw no future with the person\n* I never liked dating; it's far too socially stressful, so I prefer to keep to myself and a small group of close friends\n* I have no desire to date because it means sex and intimacy will be required\n* My dates went from psycho-bad to much worse, so I decided to marry the first sane person I could find\n* What's "dating"?\n

Intimate relationships

Sex for me is:

Kerry — Fri, 09 Nov 2007 07:38:58 -0700

* a solitary secret, better kept to myself\n* an enjoyable shared experience with the one I love\n* a source of huge anxiety\n* a vague memory\n

Intimate relationships

let's talk about sex, baby

Kerry — Sat, 03 Feb 2007 04:44:39 -0700

I've been reading some of the posts from the RAD I had help moderate. This one really hit home, for me. HA! Get it??? "hit", "struck me hard"... I kill myself with my inside jokes sometimes... anyhoo.. the topic is Rough Sex and the person with Attachment Disorders. Do they go hand-in-hand? If so, why?

Intimate relationships

When I think of "home", I think of:

Kerry — Fri, 10 Aug 2007 07:42:06 -0600

* Where I was born\n* Where I was raised\n* Where I am loved\n* Being alone\n

Child placement

How would you describe yourself...

Kerry — Sat, 15 Mar 2008 14:36:43 -0600

* Attractive/Sexy\n* Funny\n* Smart\n* All of these\n* None of these\n

Intimate relationships

Adult RAD's and their baby-steps towards secure intimacy

Kerry — Mon, 28 Apr 2008 05:09:24 -0600

I've been reading a lot of posts on a website that teaches sex/porn addicts how to reform their detached sex-deeds through non-orgasmic learning. The author of the book and website wrote the following post-reply that made me think about the Adult RAD's Response.

She wrote: [In response to a question about the shelf-life of her book's suggested techniques]

Intimate relationships

A few words about ADDICTIONS

Kerry — Fri, 16 May 2008 02:18:22 -0600

Coffee, cookies, chocolate. Sports, sex, smoking, Drugs, diets, drinking. Pick a demon, any demon.... which one claims the life of someone you know? Add a dick; shun. Addiction.

Intimate relationships

The Divorce-Alternative

Kerry — Thu, 17 Apr 2008 13:17:01 -0600

I had a very interesting discussion with a good friend today... we were talking about the moral-alternative to divorcing a man who makes a great dad, but hideous husband. Often, a couple will get married because a child is involved, but later divorce in misery because the marriage aspect of the relationship sucked. Specifically... no one was getting sex or feeling remotely liked, "in that way".

Intimate relationships

Touched

Kerry — Mon, 14 Apr 2008 08:28:28 -0600

I'm funny when it comes to touching and being touched. I can easily be around another person's body, and see it for it's anatomical parts, but don't ask me to get personal, because I will have to let my mind out so it can stray. My professional goal, as assigned by my adoptive parents, was to become a R.N. As a nurse, it was my job to take care of what was hurting or causing infection in another person. Picture for a moment, what that job implies...

Intimate relationships

Virginity ruling raises outcry in France

Kerry — Wed, 04 Jun 2008 17:08:41 -0600

Annulment of Muslim marriage raises debate on secular vs. religious values

The Associated Press

updated 5:48 p.m. ET, Wed., June. 4, 2008

PARIS - The bride said she was a virgin. When her new husband discovered that was a lie, he went to court to annul the marriage — and a French judge agreed.

Intimate relationships

Men Sexually Abused in Childhood, Survivors

Kerry — Thu, 22 May 2008 03:52:24 -0600

A man climbs up the tree of his life, his own family tree, digging into his memories in order to understand the cause of his difficulties and weariness of life. The difficulties for a male survivor of sexual abuse to share intimacy with his girlfriend.

The Bleeding Grounds