What were you told about your natural mother, (what was the reason given for your separation)?
Fri, 2007-07-27 12:25 - Kerry
Both parents died
0% (0 votes)
One parent died, and the other could not take care of me
0% (0 votes)
One parent left, and the other could not care for me
0% (0 votes)
My mother didn't want me
33% (2 votes)
Other (please explain)
67% (4 votes)
Total votes: 6
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Two Different Stories
My grandmother (adoptive father's mother) told me: My parents were in a severe car accident. My father was killed. My mother was paralyzed. Her mother could not care for me, so I was sent to an orphanage. I was adopted.
My adoptive mother told me: My parents were married, "but not to each other". My father was a Ukrainian marine-biologist, and was visiting Newfoundland where my mother lived. She had a drinking problem and was always in bars. I was the result. Since abortion was not legal, I was born and put in an orphanage where I was severely neglected. Had I not been adopted, my head would have remained flat from neglect, and I would have become grossly retarded. My adoptive mother went into great detail how she saved me.
According to social-service reports, neither story was remotely accurate.
I was never given a reason.
I was never given a reason. I asked. But very seldom to cattle get to ask "why am I here, where am I going.
!!!!Wow you guys got an answer!!!!.
I guess that must be an American thing. They don't feel the need to lie to us. It's just "tough shit shut up and take it."
I figured out if I didn't ask questions... and didn't try to ask someone out side the foster care system for help... they wouldn't force me onto drugs like they did most of my peers. and I didn't end up like them... dumb and drooling on them selves while they watched t.v and compared penis sizes.... then two minutes later fighting throwing furniture at each other.
I highly doubt anyone could have been able to answer any of my questions anyways even if they had tried.
As an adult I know the reason now...and what do you know... they are still trying to lie to me and to everyone else.... right in plain site...
Spitting in the faces of their victims while telling us... beat it before they have us arrested. Or throw us in jail if we don' shut up while they victimize us.
The reason they give you is irrelevant... the excuses and constant dribbling and "poor children" crap doesn't matter the opinion of such people is nuthing more then rubbish.....
Does it matter why someone raped you? does it matter why they killed your child? Your friend, your loved ones?
No....
Nothing the foster care and adoption industry does can justify the crimes and horrors inflicted on us in the name of their own arrogant self righteous unethical discriminating dribble... No one has the right to interfere with your family. NO ONE! Specifically not an corrupt unethical group of dogs... who have the nerve to call themselves a government of the people... while destroying the lives of millions because of their stupid insane beliefs..
The reason is irrelevant.
Because they are irrelevant. And belong in the past with all our other greatest mistakes..