What were you told about your natural mother, (what was the reason given for your separation)?

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Two Different Stories

My grandmother (adoptive father's mother) told me:  My parents were in a severe car accident.  My father was killed.  My mother was paralyzed.  Her mother could not care for me, so I was sent to an orphanage.  I was adopted.

My adoptive mother told me:  My parents were married, "but not to each other".  My father was a Ukrainian marine-biologist, and was visiting Newfoundland where my mother lived.  She had a drinking problem and was always in bars.  I was the result.  Since abortion was not legal, I was born and put in an orphanage where I was severely neglected.  Had I not been adopted, my head would have remained flat from neglect, and I would have become grossly retarded.  My adoptive mother went into great detail how she saved me.

According to social-service reports, neither story was remotely accurate.