By: Albert Mohler Posted: Firday, August 29, 2008
The concept of adoption is nearly universal. In the classic sense it is the formal and legally recognized act of willingly receiving someone else's child as your own. In contrast to temporary guardianship or foster arrangements, adoption is permanent. Legally, adoption establishes a new identity for the child. In many cases around the world, adoption can mean the difference between life and death.
In the New Testament, adoption serves as a primary analogy of salvation. The sinner, who prior to faith in Christ is a rebel headed for destruction, is now adopted as a child of God. This new status is further defined as that of a joint-heir with Christ. By grace, the rebel child of the enemy is adopted as a child of the King. The former slave to sin is now a son or daughter of the heavenly Father.
As the Apostle Paul explains:
In the same way we also, when we were children, were enslaved to the elementary principles of the world. But when the fullness of time had come, God sent forth his Son, born of woman, born under the law, to redeem those who were under the law, so that we might receive adoption as sons. And because you are sons, God has sent the Spirit of his Son into our hearts, crying, “Abba! Father!” So you are no longer a slave, but a son, and if a son, then an heir through God. [Galatians 4:3-7, esv]
Further:
So then, brothers, we are debtors, not to the flesh, to live according to the flesh. For if you live according to the flesh you will die, but if by the Spirit you put to death the deeds of the body, you will live. For all who are led by the Spirit of God are sons of God. For you did not receive the spirit of slavery to fall back into fear, but you have received the Spirit of adoption as sons, by whom we cry, “Abba! Father!” The Spirit himself bears witness with our spirit that we are children of God, and if children, then heirs—heirs of God and fellow heirs with Christ, provided we suffer with him in order that we may also be glorified with him. [Romans 8:12-17, esv]
In recent years, American Christians have seen a recovery of adoption as a living concept -- and as a focus of congregational celebration.
Many evangelical congregations actively encourage families to adopt and offer support, education, and encouragement for international adoptions. This renewed interest among evangelicals attracted the attention of The Wall Street Journal. Naomi Schaefer Riley explains that adoption is now a "hot topic in the evangelical community" as Christians understand adoption to be a sanctity-of-human-life issue.
The article cites my colleague Russell Moore as a direct authority on the issue:
Russell Moore, the dean of the Southern Baptist Theological Seminary in Louisville, Ky., is the author of a forthcoming book called "Adopted for Life: The Priority of Adoption for Christian Families and Churches." A few years ago, Mr. Moore and his wife adopted two boys from Russia, and he notes that his church has posted a large map showing which countries member families have adopted children from. "In any given church," he notes, "you rarely see only one family who has adopted. . . . It becomes part of the culture of the congregation."
Given the vast number of at-risk orphans in the world -- now numbering in the millions -- this resurgence in adoption among American evangelicals should be a matter of public celebration. In the United States, 127,000 children are considered "unadoptable," and many of these are racial minorities. Shouldn't the adoption of these children be a priority for the church? It would seem so, but politics and political correctness often complicate the rescue of vulnerable children.
As Naomi Schaefer Riley reports:
"There is much more openness to transracial adoption today," Ms. Rosati says. And Mr. Moore has been very vocal about this issue. Groups like the National Association of Black Social Workers have taken a strong stand against placing black children in the homes of white parents, a position that outrages Mr. Moore. He recently compared social workers who oppose transracial adoption to George Wallace. "Both are saying the same thing, 'Segregation now, segregation tomorrow, segregation forever.' And both pretend they're just being realistic about racial discrimination."
The command to "defend the orphan" (Isaiah 1:16-17) has always been vital to the Christian message, Mr. Moore tells me. One thing that distinguished early Christians from their pagan neighbors was their treatment of unwanted children. And adoption is also the literal manifestation of a metaphor that Christians use to describe themselves all the time. "Every one of us who follows Christ was adopted into an already existing family," says Mr. Moore.
Russell Moore has offered a clear and compelling basis for celebrating and encouraging adoption, and for refuting the lies of this age with the power of the Gospel of Jesus Christ, which is, after all, a Gospel of adoption.
For Christians, this is thus a matter of adoption by the adopted. Such is the Kingdom of God.
Comments
Followers v. Leaders
The more I read about the religious-take on adoption, the more I see how the legal term "adoption" has strayed from the act that implies acceptance, adaptation, and instruction.
I don't like reading how adoption has become the fashion-trend local churches want to claim and advertise on paper , especially when so many forms of abuse can take place in the name of God and religion.
I think it's noble and necessary to help those who need assistance. This applies to both children AND adults, alike. I believe the story of The Good Samaritan illustrates how this can - and should - be done by and for our fellow-man.
I do NOT think it reflects well on ANY society that one person decides what is "right" and "best", and then all others are expected/required to immediately follow that chosen example, as well. [After all, look what Jim Jones did to his flock of followers, and what Hitler did within one country.]
When I read how popular adoption has become in America, I'm reminded of the example many mothers give their children in terms of peer-pressure: "If your friend jumps off a bridge or a tall building, does that mean you should, too?"
Perhaps more people should keep religious dogma and political agenda aside, and simply think how treating others with patience and kindness is what the human family should be all about. All children are born from parents. Some are more beaten down and alone, so they will need more help than others. One should not have to take another person's name, or relinquish identifying rights before help is offered and given. Period.
My dinky rural area of PA...
International adoption is very 'hot' in my area of Pennsylvania right now...especially among the 'churched'.
I have been privledged (sarcasm) to hear some really lovely comments, all from the 'churched', at work, and just rambling around town.....a sampling:
"Those little Chink babies sure are cute."
"If I adopt one of those foreign kids, we'll have a Doctor in the family...Well, not one of those Africans. Only if we got an Oriental."
"One of the ladies at my church adopted a gook baby. What were they thinking? She'll never BE WHITE."
"My daughter adopted a Chinese baby. She made sure to get rid of the stupid name that she came with."
"Jesus wants us to adopt those kids and make them Americans."
"Poor baby...her mother was probably one of those Asian prostitutes you hear about."
"Watch out when she becomes a teenager. Those Chinese girls drive men wild. You'll never get a moments peace."
I wonder...
if they will speak Korean when they get older?
I think that pushed in nose of your baby is cute...
Why did you want to adopt one of those?
Is your husband a foreigner?
Are you babysitting your grand-kids?
Maybe they will marry each other.
Do you get state assistance for foreign adopted children?
How much do they cost?
Are their real parents dead?
On and On and On...
That's what an adoptive mother hears.
"I can be changed by what happens to me, I refuse to be reduced by it." M.A.
One Step Up From Bottom
Teddy
Denial
The flip-side to all of this is, of course: deny the adopted child is adopted, and pretend the new-addition was born into the family, just like every-other-normal-child in the world.
[After-all, ignoring the white-elephant in the room is always a "safe-bet", isn't it?]
When...
were you told you were adopted? Did they pretend you weren't?
"I can be changed by what happens to me, I refuse to be reduced by it." M.A.
One Step Up From Bottom
Teddy
From the beginning
For as long as I can remember, I knew I was adopted.
I was told my mother was a drunken Irish woman, and my father was a Ukrainian marine biologist "in port for a one-night stand".
I was in my mid-thirties when I learned my mother was/is a French Canadienne trained in the sciences, and my father was with the Canadian Navy, working as a communications specialist. The one piece of information I got "right" from the beginning was: my father was/is Ukrainian.
Growing-up, I was told I looked just like my amother. Considering she is Irish, (from a very small family), and my afather is Italian, (from a very large, uh, very DYSFUNCTIONAL family), I can understand why my amother wanted/needed me to believe I was "just like her".
[I don't know what you know about NJ Italians, but in every family portrait, I stuck-out like the sore-thumb mis-fit I always felt like I was.]
Anytime I asked if I could learn more about my first parents, my afather would ask me, "Why would you want to know about them? WE are your family."
My adoption was not a secret, but all my feelings about my past and present situation had to be kept hidden, (with as little "open discussion" as possible).
Small Town PA
Pinky wrote:
"Those little Chink babies sure are cute."
"If I adopt one of those foreign kids, we'll have a Doctor in the family...Well, not one of those Africans. Only if we got an Oriental."
"One of the ladies at my church adopted a gook baby. What were they thinking? She'll never BE WHITE."
Wow! I live in small town Pennsylvania (Lancaster County). I've never heard anything remotely close to what you claim passes for casual conversation in small town Pennsylvania. Bigots can be found anywhere. Small town = small mind is a form of bigotry in and of itself.
Maybe you need new friends.
Dad
Dear Dad...wow, it's creepy to say that...LOL
Anyway, this is the section of PA where a man was recently stomped to death by a gang of teen-agers, presumeably because he was Hispanic (to which local folks usually add "yeah, an ILLEGAL Hispanic...seves him right.")...central PA, land of the strip mine.
Your area is downright metropolitan in comparison. I think we have a 2% minority population.
And please, don't assume my co-workers and towns people are my friends...I think I have better taste.
I've complained NUMEROUS times to my Chief of Operations about racist workplace comments (I've also reported the homosexual slander, which is also wild), the answers I have gotten range from, "Maybe we should have some sort of sensitivity training." to "You've got to understand...these folks are older...this is how they were raised, and they are set in their ways." (I mentioned that several of the employees involved are younger than me (35), I just got stared at for a moment).
I'm waiting for the wrong person to hear some of this chatter, so we get sued. Maybe then I'll be taken seriously.
Small-town thinking
My afather was a small-town boy.
When he got mad at me, he'd call me "stupid nigger".
Considering we were a white family, I thought that was funny. For a while. Once I started to take those comments "too seriously", I was told I was "too sensitive".
Yes, bigots are everywhere... including adoptive families.
Maybe some of us need new families?
I'm not WHITE??????????
Not totally it turns out....
While I did not know I was of various races (I didn't even know I was adopted until I was 19, long, bizarre story) until just recently, my a-father would indeed have known I wasn't 'pure white'.
Never stopped him from making racist comments about pretty much any ethnic group on Earth.
My a-mom wasn't as bad, but did insist "Black people smell like mildew."
I grew up in your town
Man, I can hear those voices like flashbacks from my childhood!
All my neighbors had come up from Apallacia to work in the auto factories. We're talking, Ohio, Kentucky, Tennesse.
We all went to church and had pot lucks and everyone had southern accents.
I have fond memories of all the ladies sitting on their porches gabbing, snapping peas and such.
A couple miles outside of Detroit, everyone in my town still referred to "them" with the 'n' word.
My mother was a Florida cracker, and My great grandfather, it turns out, was in the KKK...
So my mom & dad were the educated snooty ones there.
And my parents took this resentment as a compliment.
Because it was all about image with them.
My parents were racists. In the same way Angelina Jolie is a racist.
I was basically their trophy.
They could show me off to the world as proof that they were young liberal progressive non-racists.
They never could see the irony in anything...
I mean, my dad was really PROUD of how color blind he was. I mean, he thought he was color blind but actually he sought color because he wanted to be hip.
He would make friends with black people just so he could say he had a black friend, that kind of thing.
When actually he just worked with a couple black people and they weren't friends at all.
But he could brag that they were...
Real color blind.
One time, I went on a date with a black boy from another town and they always congratulated themselves for how generous they were - "letting" me date a colored boy...
I think it made their century . It was a real notch on their belt.
I actually liked my red neck neighbors with their ignorant comments more than I liked my own parents.
At least they weren't phonies.
Other Comments...
Here's another sampling of comments I have heard, this time strictly from a-parents...
At Work, from hospital staff:
"People ask me all the time is my husband is black...like I'd lay with a black man." *child is bi-racial*
"She has that ugly, crispy N---er hair. It takes me FOREVER to straighten it." *same bi-racial child*
"I feel so lucky. We're the first ones at church with a Chinese baby."
"I'm going to have to really watch him when he starts to date. I disapprove of race mixing." *child is Honduran*
From Hospital patients:
"MY dad LOVES our adopted baby...although he doesn't want us to feed her any rice. He was in THE WAR you know." *baby is Chinese, grandpa, I assume was in the Korean Conflict*
"I never thought I'd be able to adopt. All I had to do was go to Romania." *patient is a quadraplegic*
I think we need to collect
I think we need to collect these in a book.
I think I see another web-site in the words.
"Racists say the damnedest things..."
"things my racist parents said"
more?
All joking aside...
Early Christians didn't invent adoption...it existed in many other cultures long before
Augustus Ceaser was adopted, and back when Ireland was tribal, fostering and adopting children from different tribes was encouraged. Native Americans also adopted quite often...
Here's a scary thought:
Maybe Christians believe they have "perfected" adoption, making it seem like a theological science? After all, don't Christians believe we are all to live like brothers and sisters with one Heavenly Father, using Jesus as the perfect image of human behavior and example?
In any case, I've read in various adoption web-pages, many consider Moses as being one of the first published "adoptions" on record, (he was sent down a river... but was he SOLD down the river?), yet I have found very few discussions about Jesus, and how he was still able to live with his pregnant-before-marriage mother, Mary. Go figure....
Stuff like that always makes me wonder why Christians like to pick and choose certain stories to prove a certain "biblical fact", especially when it relates to the virtues of adoption.
Here's an almost OT question: what exactly, is "the culture of adoption", when so many of us don't know our origins?
Human versus Biblical
"Maybe Christians believe they have "perfected" adoption...."
We are such depraved creatures to think (at least in our minds) that we have perfected anything! As a Christian,
adoption has only made me MORE aware of the human's inability to get it right...
The ?adoption-culture,? IMO, is no more than man's way of taking what WAS and making it what it is, a very dysfunctional
form of what was supposed to be.
The adoption-culture breeds a separatist form of life for those who are the victims of its Power-Hungry Formers. The
results being a government: of the PHF, by the PHF, and for the PHF, and shall make the lives of the breed a hell on earth.
Without your voices here; without your truth of what has happened, the PHF's would succeed in giving a whole new
meaning to: permanent dysfunction within a whole new society of the adoption-culture.
NEVER be quiet!
"I can be changed by what happens to me, I refuse to be reduced by it." M.A.
One Step Up From Bottom
Teddy