Managing the Angry Masses

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Since my head injury, many have told me I seem much less angry and have far less rage in my writing.  The truth is, I feel as if brain-damage has worked in my favor, as it seems I can't tap-into that rage-filled region of my brain like I did before.

Do I suggest we all have a head-banger's ball, hoping it would rid the world of infuriating rage?  Not at all, that would be stupid.   I wouldn't wish that traveling road to speech-recovery on anybody -- it ain't fun or pretty.... trust me!

I do suggest, however, more people look into what keeps causing the varying ranges of anger some of us seem to have, because light-switch rage can be a sudden and scary thing, and really ruin a good time for lots of people.  [It's all fun and games until someone loses his head....]

I found the following list of "The Angriest Cities in America", and thought about Family Vacation Time, and how traveling with the kids can be the WORST thing an angry parent should be doing with the kids.  Seems insane?  Keep reading:   

Believe it not, but Orlando has been voted the US angriest city by Men’s Health Magazine – it’s interesting that four of the top 10 cities are all in Florida, and here’s me thinking that Florida was full of jolly Disney characters and thrilling theme parks!

Our search for evidence of urban anger began with the percentage of men with high blood pressure, from the CDC’s Behavioral Risk Factor Surveillance System (as calculated by Sperling’s BestPlaces).

We then factored in FBI rates of aggravated assaults and Bureau of Labor Statistics numbers on workplace deaths from assaults and other violence. And because rage and the road often go hand in hand, we also included traffic-congestion data from the Texas Transportation Institute, as well as speeding citations per state from the Governors Highway Safety Association.

Here are the Top 10 most angriest US cities;

1. Orlando, FL
2. St. Petersburg, FL
3. Detroit, MI
4. Baltimore, MD
5. Nashville, TN
6. Wilmington, DE
7. Miami, FL
8. Memphis, TN
9. Jacksonville, FL
10. St. Louis, MO

http://www.travel-rants.com/2006/08/22/the-angriest-city-in-america/

 

Of course, as a mom with four whining and complaining kids, I can easily understand why Orlando is the world's most miserable place to travel or visit.  Anyone spending thousands of dollars for a much needed vacation/holiday visit to Disney (or any other large popular amusement park) in 1000 degree temperatures with 99% humidity and having to pay $5 for an ice-cream cone that falls to the ground after the first lick can easily understand how frustration leads to rage VERY quickly!

But the other regions mentioned?  What's THEIR problem??

Comments

I desperately miss the old Kerry

"Since my head injury, many have told me I seem much less angry and have far less rage in my writing..." 

It's the first thing I noticed and I truly mourned for the old writings with rage...
Don't get me wrong, please, I know how far you have come and how hard you have struggled to get here.
It just sometimes gets so lonely.
Light-switch rage: that's the one that gets me each time and I have to walk away, leaving what was started
because I really don't know that it is 1 thing that flips that switch.  My ranges of anger are both extremes  where
I either push it down  inside and let it fester, or it's immediate and deadly; either way I lose.
IN A WORLD OF WHY,
 Teddy

Accepting the Cause of Death

I have been away on a family holiday this past week, [I'll blog my thoughts later...], and I learned a very hallow lesson:  the absence of rage within me has brought me mind-numbing silence, and this saddens me... deeply.  In fact, I find most people find me far more aggreeable and accepting about things that truly bother me, but because that passionate-fire has been re-routed, (rendering me mute with inaction and reaction), I find myself feeling more alienated and alone around more people than I could ever have cursed for myself in social-situations.  [Those from The Abyss will know just how cruel a fate Popular Impotency can be for the passionate feeling-soul.] 

When we truly know

We FIGHT Popular Impotency with great rage  when WE truly know what we could have been if not for the badge of fear we wear after completing the qualifications thrust upon us from day one:  shut up and take it  was a big one, plus learning our place. Also, we learned that love they gave to others was not for us.  But we were MEANT to have that love or else why do
we miss it so much?
IN A WORLD OF WHY,
 Teddy