How does this alter Family Dynamics?

More going without health care

Americans are paying more for medical insurance than they did a year ago, and many are avoiding important doctor visits simply because of the cost, an MSN-Zogby poll reports.

By Bradley Meacham

More than a quarter of Americans have skipped or postponed an essential visit to a doctor because it was too expensive, a new MSN-Zogby poll says.

Nearly half (48%) say they pay more in health-insurance premiums than a year ago, and 37% say they pay more out of pocket for medical services or prescriptions.

The results of the poll of 9,765 adults suggest that medical expenses are becoming a heavier burden on household finances, even for middle-income Americans. They underscore the findings of other recent studies that the cost of health care is becoming a more widespread problem.

The ranks of the nation's uninsured have grown by 11.2% since 2000, according to a study by the Kaiser Commission on Medicaid and the Uninsured. Tens of millions of Americans lack insurance, and millions more are underinsured, with gaps in their coverage that leave them exposed to catastrophic medical bills.

Medical bills pile up

A recent Harvard University study said medical bills are a factor in about half of all consumer bankruptcies. Another study reported that more Americans are turning to credit cards to cover rising medical expenses, often leading to crippling debts.

"Too many working people are piling up debt on high-interest credit cards and risking financial security simply because they have the misfortune of getting sick," says Mark Rukavina, one of the authors of a study by nonpartisan public-policy group Demos, according to Bankrate.com.

Nearly three in 10 participants in the survey from low- and middle-income households with credit card debt say medical expenses contributed to their current credit card balances, according to the Demos report. The majority had a major medical expense within the past three years.

More families are struggling in the aftermath of a serious medical problem, and many try to repay debts by taking out second mortgages or cashing in their retirement accounts, says Elizabeth Warren, a Harvard law professor. "Many will still end up in bankruptcy, but only after they have run up even more debt and their last meager resources have been exhausted," she told Bankrate.com.

Squeeze for middle-income people

According to the MSN-Zogby poll, 91% say they have health insurance, and 73% say they're happy with their coverage. Yet household income has a major influence on coverage. About 30% of households with incomes below $25,000 go without coverage, compared with 3% of those with household income exceeding $100,000.

The interactive MSN-Zogby poll took place Jan. 17-22 and contains a margin of error of plus or minus 1 percentage point.

The poll suggests an increasing squeeze for middle-income Americans. People with household income of $25,000 to $75,000 report the highest level of dissatisfaction, with approximately one in four dissatisfied with their benefits.

Those in the $50,000-to-$75,000 range were most likely (51%) to say their premiums have climbed. Married adults say they've been hit especially hard: 51% are facing higher premiums over the past year, compared with 37% of single adults.

When it comes to out-of-pocket expenses, households with $25,000 to $35,000 in income say they are hardest hit, with 40% paying more.

Though 16% of Americans say they have a health savings account, the popularity of the high-deductible plans increases as a person's income rises. Nearly a quarter (24%) of people with more than $100,000 in household income say they have a health savings account, compared with just 5% of those making less than $25,000. Such plans allow consumers to save money tax-free to pay for health services.

Comments

Does this cause Dead-Beat Dads?

Think about it...  which came first, the egg or the chicken, who couldn't pay for the medical expenses.

Is it an excuse, or reality?

Either way, it's a raw deal and it bites for the child and both parents of that child.

Deadbeat Dad or Deadbeat Mom are pejorative terms (primarily U.S.) that are commonly used by the child support agency to refer to men and women who have fathered or mothered a child but fail to pay child support ordered by a family law court or statutory agency such as the Child Support Agency. The real definition is an unrestricted parent treated equally who freely chooses not to be a regular or supportive parent in their child or children's lives. Deadbeat parents is a gender neutral term referring to parents of either gender that have freely chosen not to be a regular or supportive parent in their children's lives.

Healthcare expenditure

A couple of weeks ago I was going through the database of the World Health Organization and collected some figures for Western European countries, Australia, Canada and the USA. Among those figures, the cost of health care per country. Here is a list of those figures.

Country Health care expenditure
per capita
Government
contribution
Government
contribution
as percentage
of total
Australia $3223 $2107 65.36%
Austria $3683 $2783 75.55%
Belgium $3363 $2392 71.11%
Canada $3038 $2121 69.82%
Denmark $3897 $3207 82.29%
Finland $2664 $2057 77.18%
France $3464 $2715 78.36%
Germany $3521 $2709 76.93%
Iceland $4413 $3679 83.36%
Ireland $3234 $2570 79.45%
Italy $2580 $1936 75.06%
Netherlands $3442 $2146 62.35%
Norway $5405 $4512 83.48%
Portugal $1665 $1192 71.63%
Spain $1971 $1397 70.86%
Sweden $3532 $3000 84.93%
Switzerland $5572 $3261 58.51%
UK $2900 $2502 86.27%
United States $6069 $2725 44.89%

Let's look at manners and morals

Background Check:  Is it a good idea to find out more about a psycho parent?

http://www.slate.com/id/2178295/

Dear Prudence,
My biological father was (and I guess might still be) a dirtbag. He beat my mother, molested my sister, and ridiculed my brother so much that for a short time, my brother became one of those kids you see slobbering all over his hands, rocking rhythmically. The effects of this early family life were cruel, but they don't align with the pattern family dysfunction often produces. My mom went back to college, then got her M.A. My sister also earned her B.A. and M.A. My brother eventually realized he was smart and capable of becoming a doctor, and did brilliantly on his recent medical-school boards. I've done OK myself. As a team, we've collectively forgotten about our father. This was easy, since he agreed to relinquish paternal rights and we were adopted by our first stepfather, who later died. We changed our last names and moved a different coast. Now I'm in my early 30s, with a wife and a beautiful 2-year-old daughter, and I've found myself more and more curious about my family health history, including those genes that come from the paternal father. I have no interest in contacting him. But I wouldn't mind getting in touch with his parents to find out about health history. This kind of knowledge would upset my mother to the point of stuttering. And I don't remember my paternal grandparents' names, so I'd have to ask my mom for their names and contact information. Should I or shouldn't I?

—Just Curious

Dear Just,
It's completely understandable that now that you're a father yourself, you wonder about your own father, and what of him—and his family—is in you and your daughter. But what you and your siblings already know about yourselves is what's most important: All of you had the strength and drive to make happy and productive lives. So, I would caution you about your intended search. You say you don't want contact with your father, but getting in touch with his family might well put him back in contact with you. Your papa was not just a rolling stone, he was a violent pervert. As far as his extended family is concerned, it sounds as if during the years before you changed your last name, his own parents—your grandparents—had no role in your lives, indicating that your father wasn't just the black sheep, he was part of a diseased flock. Before taking any steps to find his family, it's only fair to discuss this not only with your mother, but with your siblings. And before you decide to do that, repeat to yourself the phrase violent pervert several times and see if that doesn't cool your curiosity. As for knowing your health history, any tidbits of information you get would likely not be worth the damage to everyone's health by having this monster reappear.

—Prudie

 

Let's take a crack at this one:  black-sheep of the family fears maybe he's more like dad than his mom, and the rest of the clan?  Maybe the odds are not in this guy's favor, and he's scared that he's going to follow in his father's footsteps?.  Can you blame him?  Is there genetic testing for dead-beat dad genes or asshole parenting?  If not, maybe some pharmacy group can say they have one, and make billions off of people leading them into thinking they have a cure for crappy choices in sex partners.

Maternal Family Preservation

What I really like about this example is how it illustrates a woman's ability to keep her cool, and survive the blows of a horrific nightmare no one would ever want to endure.  She not only did well for herself, she did well for her kids, and she found another man to marry, as well.  Quite frankly, I couldn't imagine what that life-turmoil could have been like.  School, work, recovering from so much abuse, divorce, a new relationship, a new life...  AND doing that with 3 kids?  Just financially, I cannot fathom that!!!

But this letter isn't from the woman/mother needing answers.  She found her answers through herself and other adults.  From the sound of it, she got that help from step-fathers.  So how does this affect children?  For some, they seem to be unaffected.  There are those who believe, "as long as mommy is happy, everyone is happy".  Others are either too old or too young to notice what's really taking place inside the house, because they are either at school or at work.  Then there are those who got caught in the middle.

The shock-absorbers.

What about these kids?  Who takes care of these kids while mom is having a breakdown, and dad is gone, and that new-guy is just starting to visit a little too often?  Or worse, if mom is gone all the time because dad left.  And no one is around.  Ever.

Scary things happen to children, and we're supposed to get over them, and not ask questions?

I don't think I could be so polite, not any more.  Maybe the son doesn't have to confront the father or his family, but I do believe he needs to get somethings off his chest, with someone.  Perhaps the best free-advice this guy could get is suggest he look into genetic testing, coupled with a really good trauma specialist who understands child predators and criminal mindsets.  Venting fears with a stranger may be much safer than discussing them with family members.

Manners are one thing, but mental heath must come first, especially if you are a parent!