
I found a very interesting and telling link about adults with RAD, and it came as no surprise to me when I read the following question about unresolved Adult RAD:
Every message I see is about adults, who have children, with RAD.
Since I dont have children, or a boyfriend, or a husband, I'm clearly not looking for help for my kids, or anyone else..............except for myself. Are there ANY treatment centers for adults with unresolved RAD, in the Baltimore area?
Thanks http://forums.about.com/n/pfx/forum.aspx?nav=messages&webtag=ab-speclchild2&tid=376
Since PPL has been made public, I have received many letters from therapists and social workers in various regions of the US asking if we offer job-training or classes for those interested in learning more about adults with RAD. I was shocked at first to read these letters from professionals who work with orphaned children and adults in private practice. Why were they coming to us, when there must be pages of links on search engines for certified training sessions for professionals.
This is what I found: http://www.google.com/search?sourceid=navclient&ie=UTF-8&rls=HPID,HPID:2006-20,HPID:en&q=certified+training+for+adults+with+RAD
What about therapies for the Adult RAD? http://www.google.com/search?sourceid=navclient&ie=UTF-8&rls=HPID,HPID:2006-20,HPID:en&q=therapies+for+the+adult+RAD
Not very impressive is it?
There is a growing need for counseling and support for the ADULT with RAD, but very few options are available. As one who has tried many different therapists to help me resolve my trust issues, I learned very few therapists understand the language of a person who does not trust anyone.
Words like "unconditional", or "trust" or "love" were laughable to me! Are these people crazy? Those are the words and meanings I'm trying to learn about!
I did what I have always had to do, and that's figure a solution to my problems all by myself, without the help or understanding of anyone around me.
It has been an exhausting and infuriating experience, but I refuse to quit when it comes to gaining an understanding of what intimate love and trust really means and feels like. I deserve love, and I believe I am entitled to feel and experience it, otherwise why was I born and allowed to live?
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"It has been an exhausting
"It has been an exhausting and infuriating experience, but I refuse to quit when it comes to gaining an understanding of what intimate love and trust really means and feels like. I deserve love, and I believe I am entitled to feel and experience it, otherwise why was I born and allowed to live?"
All my life, the words, "I love you" were slung around and enjoyed by everyone around me; no wonder at age 58 I almost
demand to be loved by someone so I can die knowing what all the fuss was about! Only I know and here my demands...
I NEED intimate love and understanding, trust which can be defined by the experience of it, and the knowledge that I
am here for a certain reason. I guess I have not ever quit searching; I've just been on holiday, watching and hoping I
would recognize it... One thing I am very proud of: Years ago I would fall in love with anyone in hopes that they would
love me, and now I have watched a friend fall in love and feel only happiness for him; knowing I did not let myself fall
in love with someone I was NOT in love with; I KNOW how to be a friend!
One Step Up From Bottom,
Teddy