Compare and Contrast the Adoption Experience

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When I first started my "Search", I started where any novice would:  Adoption.Com.  It seemed like the natural choice.  Adoption.  Communication.  Information.  Open to the public.  I'm there.

I learned, quickly, I wasn't at all entirely on board with the broad message that organization of lawyers and agencies propagates for itself.  Adoption.com is a con-game, selling adoption as THE best plan for all parents seeking the best choice  for children.

I quickly learned this communication board wanted little of The Truth, the WHOLE truth, as only it can be told by those who know both sides of the adoption and abuse stories neglect and abandonment have to show for themselves.

Seems no one wants to read such stuff on a site that sells adoption as a choice parenting option.

Shame money comes before child safety.

I was banned for voicing my opinions.  My posts were deleted, without so much as a warning, and not once was I given a chance to defend my good name.

I did what I thought best.  [I work by using my own animal instinct]

I went to a man who called himself The Adoption Authority, healing wounds around the world, and I told him, there are adult adoptees not at all ready to reunite because they are far too stuck in The Abyss of abuse and darkness.  "What can be done for those adult children of adoption and foster care?"

I was kicked out of his office because I voiced more of my opinion.

Again, I did what I thought best.

PPL is approaching it's one year anniversary.

I'm proud as hell of our work so far.

I know PPL is not at all popular, not compared to all the other adoption websites out there.  Not yet, at least.

I have every intention in the world for that to change.  Mark my words, the Dark Side of Adoption will have it's day in the sun, if it's the last thing I have done in my life.  After all, I have made it my life's work and family legacy, to do what's not been done before:  care for those who have been lost and forgotten.  Adoptees are made, not born.  We are created, and must be cared for an entire life-time.  Abandonment and neglect of our medical and emotional needs is a huge mistake church and state must recognize.

PPL's second year will be marked 1 November.  Anyone care to guess what November marks?