Pound Pup Legacy

I've always been one who loves to see and discuss the obvious, only to learn so few see life through my life-lenses.  Is that an Adoption-Thing or is that more related to Abandonment Issues?  The way I see it, as an adoptee, often times, "abandonment", "relinquishment", and "adoption" all become one in the same in the trade-replacement game.

The popular selling school of thought is to heal through original family reunion.  Of course that will be the pushed angle from the Industry, since they themselves created the Triad.  "The Triad".  I laugh when I read that... I think of The Bermuda Triangle and think of my own new-word "triangulation": being strangled by the word Triad.  There is nothing "straight and narrow" about selling a woman's baby to strangers, when that baby already has a family, other than the greed an agency shows for itself when it operates in such a manner.  Profit for parenting; I don't buy it!  It's shameful, and it should be stopped, but that's not what this topic is entirely about.

I'm more circular and sexual in my thoughts, as I believe most humans are.

I believe adoptees, especially, have huge issues when it comes to sex and intimacy because of the loss of their First Love.  I believe it manifests itself later in life when Trust , Touch and Intimacy become resurfaced issues in development (read:  puberty).  I also believe this is a topic not discussed as it should be.  After all, we were all created by sex, born from a sex and are sexual beings... yet sex becomes the very taboo topic we mutts cannot discuss in our own families.  Worse still, are those adoptees who have become the victims of sexual deviant behavior simply because they were NOT considered blood or "family".

My question is:  how many relate to a need to contact another human, but feel very confused about it because of the fear it instills, due to your own abandonment/abuse issues?