Pound Pup Legacy

I began my study of Adoption & its affect on human behavior over five years ago. It (the carnage) had no name that read: Reactive Attachment Disorder. To this day, I still challenge the act and process that describes a system that has broken the lives and families of billions of babies.  Adoption , as it exists, requires more adaptations to more people than it is worth!

The word "foster" means: "to promote growth or develop; encourage".

The term Foster Care, according to Webster-dictionary means: "supervised care for delinquent or neglected children usually in an institution or substitute home"

Amidst all the news that reflects the bad-seeds in foster care, I'd like to share how one couple can do really do great things in the name of "fostering".   Below is an excerpt from an article written about a UK couple that  died within three weeks of each other.

After we landed in the land of fairy tales, my escort left me to an unknown American woman who took me to a room full of adults. Taking the babies, they were crying, laughing, talking aloud, and showing their new babies to each other. That's what my amother compared to giving birth because these women "were exactly like women giving birth to their babies" and she (my amother) also felt the pain of childbirth when she saw me.

After a while, I get tired of reading about the adoption-option being in the best interest of the child.  In many cases, adoption of very young children is far more about feeding into the PAP want and need to "parent", than helping those who need a helping hand due to death, violence or accidental tragedy.

Once again, I found yet another piece to the corrupt puzzle of adoption.  In the UK, where adoption targets are aplenty, there are laws that make it easy to break-up families.

ok so I know that I don't have a job right now, or a place to live but I do have cash in my pocket on friday, but as for these three days..I have no idea what's to come next. but somehow God always provides me.

I was 20  when I revealed the secret the first time to a psychologist of a college. I liked her immediately but it took me several weeks before taking the decision to talk about it. I told her that my father touched me repeatedly and did more than touching me during my adolescence. I thought that would be our last meeting, I was sure she would despise me. We continued to meet but I never wanted to talk about the secret again. I told her that he had stopped touching me since four years and that it wasn't a problem for me, the real problem was my mother drinking almost every day.

A new addition has made to our Abuse Pages... his name is Andrew, and his picture reminds me why this sort of work (exposing abuse after child placement cases) is so difficult.  Andrew represents what we used to be:  a child, with so much ahead in life to experience and enjoy.  Andrew, like every child listed in our abuse cases represent a future that got eliminated, thanks to the hands of those not doing their jobs in terms of "safe child placement".

Gladney adoption services is revealing their new marketing campaign, and website, complete with job-openings for those interested in working for them.  (Included is a position for their maternity home which "seeks responsible individual to mentor young women through their pregnancy and adoption plan and/or to transport clients to the hospital and act as their labor coach during delivery. Applicant must be energetic and compassionate and live within 15-20 minutes of the Gladney Center. Experience in labor and delivery preferred.")

A recently made film, Frozen River, shows how the want or need for money can lead to human trafficking.

When watching the brief clip, consider how much more valuable (and desirable) the life of a child is, compared to the adult immigrants hiding in the woman's trunk.  Trafficked children are sold for sex or black market adoption operations.